Just got a text message that Terry had taken a break from sorting and separating for the upcoming move to Texas to have a light lunch of Wheatberry Salad. This is a recipe that he got from the electronic notebook of recipes that I gave to him when I gave him my old Powerbook. (Yes, Patty, he is a full-fledged mac convert now!) I bought wheatberries when I was in Traverse City (see photos), but never made the salad for him. I’m so impressed that he made this for himself because I know this is a first for him!
Wheatberry Salad with Peppers & Grapes
Wheatberries have a very satisfying texture. They are similar to barley in that they remain slightly chewy even when fully cooked.
3/4 cup wheatberries
2 1/2 cups water
2 red bell peppers, cut lengthwise into flat panels
1 green bell pepper, cut lengthwise into flat panels
3 tablespoons red wine vinegar
1 tablespoon walnut or olive oil
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 cup seedless red grapes, quartered
2 scallions, thinly sliced
1 In a medium saucepan, bring the wheatberries and water to a boil over high heat. Reduce to a simmer, cover, and cook until the wheatberries are tender but still slightly chewy, about 1 hour. Drain.
2 Meanwhile, preheat the broiler. Place the bell pepper pieces, skin-side up, on a broiler pan and broil 4 inches from the heat for 10 to 12 minutes, or until the skin is charred. When the peppers are cool enough to handle, peel them and cut into 1/2-inch squares.
3 In a large bowl, whisk together the vinegar, walnut oil, and salt. Add the warm wheatberries, bell peppers, grapes, and scallions, and toss to combine. Serve warm, at room temperature, or chilled.
Makes 4 servings
Nutrition Information (per serving)
calories 217 • total fat 4.5g (saturated 0.7g) • cholesterol 0mg • dietary fiber 7g • carbohydrate 43g • protein 6g • sodium 297mg •
good source of: beta carotene, fiber, niacin, potassium, selenium, thiamin, vitamin B6, vitamin E
From Wellnessletter.com
But this is just one in a long line of “firsts” for him since we reconnected last July.
First opera, first deliberative forum, first time to show affection in public without being rebuffed, first Apple product, first blog, first social network, first time to twitter, first time to consider starting own business, first time to read books like “The Hero Within” and to think about personal archetypes, first cowboy boots, first ichat and text message, first sushi, first time to use chopsticks.
He’d never used chopsticks, but he jumped in willingly in NY. (yep, THAT trip to NY. The time he proposed.) Over the course of three days, we had three meals – Thai, Japanese and Chinese – using chopsticks. He was a trooper!
There are many things that I love about Terry, but his willingness to try new things (and the fact that there are SO many things he’s never had a chance to do!) absolutely delights me. Each of these firsts is like an adventure and sometimes he’s downright giddy about going on that adventure with me. It’s a joy to share these firsts with him.
Of course, I’ve had lots of firsts with him, too. First time to drive a snowblower, first time to be in bun-numbing sub-zero weather, first live broadcast of an opera, first time to wear animal on my head.

But mostly this is the first time I’ve ever been so loved by someone unconditionally devoted to me.
I feel the same in return.
There’s one more first for you, honey.
And now, before I get too sappy, here’s what I had for lunch

Yep, that’s grilled avocado and grilled lettuce on the plate. I told you I grill everything!
Now get your self down here. We’ve got a lot more “firsts” to experience!